How can you tell when your woman loves you? What are those things to expect when a woman loves and wants you to be happy? How can you know if her love for you is real? Is she just attracted to you, your status, your body physic, your money, or is she really serious about you two? Is she shy to admit she loves you? Or maybe she tells you she loves you but then you aren’t sure if it’s true?
Well dude, simply because she hasn’t said it yet doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you. More so, even if she says she loves you, it doesn’t really mean she does. It’s not that difficult to figure out you know. Below, are top 10 signs your woman loves you deeply even without saying it. And if you find out she does all of these for you, Never Let Her Go! Is that clear enough? Yes I suppose.
1. She Listens To You.
Have you ever tried engaging in a conversation with some people but then it feels like you’re having a monologue? You’re just talking to yourself. You get annoyed, but most importantly, you feel unappreciated. It’s just as if the things you are saying don’t have any meaning at all. But then, that’s not how it is with your girl. She actually hears you. She listens. And it’s not just about sitting in front of you and simply listening to you. It’s about hearing what you have to say, interacting with you, asking questions, giving replies, suggesting solutions to problems, the exchanging information, having a real talk and all of that. You might even feel like she hears what you don’t say too, like she’s reading your mind, seeing right through you deep into your soul. And you know that feeling? It’s awesome.
A simple conversation could give you the power and strength you need today and at the same time, it won’t take away your masculinity. She opens up her heart to you and truly allows your words touch her. A woman who really loves you will know how important it is for you to share your thoughts with her. That’s one of the best things that happen when you’re in a fulfilling relationship; you don’t have to deal with anything alone anymore. In fact, after you talk to her you will feel like you’re capable of doing just any and everything. That’s because she believes in you. That’s typical of a woman who deeply loves you.
2. She Pushes You To Be Better.
One of the best things about being with the right person is that you both grow together. Love isn’t just cuddles and kisses and romance. Love entails supporting each other to achieve your dreams. It also means that your partner might believe in you more than you believe in yourself. And that’s the point when you will know if she loves you. You might have great potentials to be a better person, to live better, to do better and she would be right there to see those potentials get manifested. She constantly motivates you to do more. You feel like you can expand your real potential and you always have her support. In her eyes, there are no limits to what you can achieve in life. And that’s not because she’s in love, but because she sees things even you don’t see. That’s the beauty of true love.
3 She Let’s You Know When You Are Wrong.
An obvious sign your lady loves you is when she doesn’t keep quiet when you’re wrong. She doesn’t only tell you, she also tries to correct you and ensure you do the right thing at the right time. We are humans and so we all make mistakes, no one is perfect. We all have our flaws and weaknesses and that’s fine. But if she’s just using you and doesn’t really love you, she will not bother telling you when you go wrong. In fact, she wouldn’t even care if you are wrong or not. However someone who really loves you will not leave you in the dark by letting you believe you are always so right and perfect. And that’s a good thing.
4. She’s Kind To You.
People can be kind and nice to people. But you see this type of kindness? It’s that type of you feel towards a persons who is very close and dear to your heart. It’s the kind of care for your emotions, feelings and love. She touches you in a gentle way, kisses you softly, hugs you passionately, cares for you and does things for you with all of her heart. Your bodies will fit together perfectly. And you will know that she belongs right here, on your shoulder, straight down to your heart and then in your soul. It’s all about the energy and vibe she sends you when talking, that special kinda care that never ends.
5. She Will Never Allow You To Mistreat Her.
Love isn’t infatuation. They say love is blind, but true love opens the eyes. And when a woman loves you, she will not be blinded by that love. She wants the same thing she offers – respect, commitment, appreciation, kindness, care, affection, regard… simply love. A woman who loves you will never allow you to mistreat her. She will be open and honest about it when you misbehave or try to disrespect her. She loves herself enough to know that she must be treated right and this helps you respect her even more. It’s like she puts you in your place, not in a rude manner, but in a way that makes you think, “Wow! That’s a woman I want to have by my side”.
6. She Truly Cares For You.
Your welfare and safety are her concerns. Word is power. But then, words without actions are nothing. So love without action is nothing. Love entails showing genuine care to that person you claim to love. One of the most obvious signs she loves you without necessarily saying it is when she puts that love to action by showing you care. She simply cares about what you do, how you feel, she does things for you, she makes life much easier and better for you. You see, each one of us shows love in a different ways. I talked about this in The Five Love Languages. So if you want to understand how your lady shows her love for you in a specific way and most importantly, how you could love her in a way so she understands you, I suggest you read one of my blog posts; Understanding Your Partner’s Love Language. It’s a treasure that saves lives.
7. She Respects You.
If the girl you are with loves you, she will respect you. Every day. No matter what. Even when you have misunderstanding. Remember that. And she will appreciate you. She will be proud of you and almost show off with you in front of her colleagues, friends and family.
8. She Makes You Feel Like You Are Not Alone Anymore.
When you are with someone who truly loves you, you just know you’re not alone. It’s just like you and her against the world, watching each other’s back. Not just because she said it, but because she showed it. She never lets you deal with the difficulties alone. She’s always with you through thick and thin. She makes you smile even in your saddest days. She is kind and you simply know she’s always there for you. She hugs you, tells you everything is gonna be okay and you feel her little heart’s warmth against yours. That’s the moment you know she loves you.
9. She Shows You Are Her Priority.
She doesn’t necessarily have to tell you this, but she just shows you. The difference between a girl who likes you and a woman who loves you is that the first one will care for you and you could be her priority (or maybe not), but then she will never show it. The second one though, will not only show you’re her priority, but she will prove it every single day and in every possible way. Being her priority doesn’t actually mean putting you before her family, but doing everything with the thought of the relationship you have and the feelings you both share. If there’s a family occasion, she will invite you to go with her. If she has to go out with her girlfriends, she’ll make sure you know about it. No, she may not ask for your permission and you shouldn’t expect that either. However, if you really need her, she will be there for you. That’s a woman that loves you deeply.
10. She Appreciates You and Makes You Smile.
She just makes you smile, for no and any reason. She finds her way to communicate with you and make you smile. At least once today. In fact, she believes your happiness and your smile are as important as hers. So she makes you smile. She doesn’t forget to show her appreciation for both the little and the big things you’re doing for her and for the sake of your relationship with her. She knows appreciation goes a long way in encouraging you to do more and also putting a smile on your face.
And dude if she does all of the things above for you, hold her close and never let go of her. You know why? Because that girl truly loves you and you’ll never feel alone again as long as you’re together. Hold on to her, there aren’t many of them out there.