Handling men who are emotionally unavailable can be quite some task atimes. Entering a relationship with an emotionally unavailable man is a slippery slope that I do not recommend. If much care is not taken, you could even get hurt in the end you know. However, I personally know that men who are emotionally unavailable do not always mean ha*m and therefore, still deserve a sho*t at love just as anybody else out there does.
To see those signs or characteristics of an emotionally unavailable man..
While I strongly suggest you run when you detect these signs of an emotionally unavailable man, I still believe that some men that display these signs or characteristics can still become great partners. Only that a little pu*h, understanding, tolerance, patience and effort is greatly required on your part. As long as you know how to deal with someone who is emotionally unavailable without losing yourself, you surely can handle this.
Moreover, it is important to note that emotional unavailability is not gender-specific. Meaning it’s not just men who can behave distant or cold. Women too can be emotionally unavailable in relationships. In reality it’s a matter of trust, which affects women as well.
Therefore, if you are dating, in a relationship or in love with a man that is emotionally unavailable, I have these recommendations for you.
Tips for Handling an Emotionally Unavailable Man.
1. First and foremost, it is important to create a safe space for him in which he feels comfortable enough to share his real self with you.
2. You have to give him the assurance that his emotions are safe with you and that you have his back. That means you cannot use his weaknesses against him at the first sign of an argum*nt.
3. The best way to break down his barriers of distrust and fear is by being vulnerable and emotionally available yourself. If you give that part of yourself he, will be encouraged to follow suit.
Sugars in the house, I hope this blog post on Emotional Unavailability in Men answers all of your questions. Later on, we will take a look at Emotional Unavailability in Women and How to Deal with them. So wait for it.
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